Positive affirmations are often employed as a tool towards self improvement because they can change the way you think, believe, and act. Affirmations create brain wave patterns which will give you that “positive vibe” that you feel around certain people. Positive affirmations can help you get that vibe and you can actually harness it to find the right man.

If you are aiming to attract your soul mate, then you’ll definitely want to come up with your own love affirmations. The following steps are recommended if you want to find the right man:

Be Clear About What You Want and What You Need To Do

The first rule to remember when developing your love affirmations to help you find the right man is to be specific about two important points:

1) The type of person you want to attract.

2) The type of person you must become to attract the kind of person you want.

Getting what you want, in whatever areas of your life, will always have a trade-off. This simply means that you have to be willing to give something in return and to make the necessary changes in yourself if you want to find the right man and keep him for good. Start by identifying the characteristics that you’re looking for in a soul mate, and then examine and ask yourself what kind of person you need to become in order to attract the kind of man you desire and develop a lasting relationship with him.

Once you have specifically answered the points above, you now have the basis from which to begin creating your love affirmations.

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Creating Your Love Affirmations

To find the right man, your love affirmations must adhere to these guidelines: 1) they must be stated in the first person; 2) they must be in the present tense; 3) they must focus on the characteristics you’re looking for; and 4) they must focus on the characteristics you must have in order to attract the type of man you want.

Let’s say, you want to attract a man who is thoughtful and caring, your positive affirmations may be stated in the following ways:

“Being a thoughtful and caring woman, I naturally attract thoughtful and caring men”.

“My thoughtful and caring ways draw thoughtful and caring men”.

“I attract thoughtful and caring men because I’m a thoughtful and caring woman”.

If you feel uncomfortable declaring such things because you know they don’t apply to you, remember that positive affirmations are meant to make your subconscious brain believe the things that you are repeatedly feeding it.

The things that you consistently feed into your subconscious will eventually influence your actions, until you become what you are positively affirming. The basis for this is a psychological concept called “cognitive dissonance”. Cognitive dissonance is the uneasiness that an individual experiences when his or her actions are not true to his beliefs. This uneasiness leads that person to ultimately alter his or her actions so that they conform to his or her beliefs.

Becoming what you are  positively affirming is achieved with the final step….

Practice Your Affirmations Consistently

It’s not enough to have your love affirmations written down, you must recite them aloud in front of a mirror daily each morning and evening. Don’t expect things to immediately change. It is important that you practice consistently because it will take around twenty one days for the momentum to really pick up. What will happen is that your creative thoughts, subconscious mind and beliefs will work together to bring the different aspects of your life in conformity with each other. This state is necessary for love affirmations to be effective.

Now, go and find the right man for you!